Monday, January 11, 2010

What is gone is gone

Memories are not bad it is good. It is good in case you remember all those people who are important in your life. It is good in case you remember those who used to make you happy but it is wrong to turn your life into memories. You can keep n your mind all of those precious moments and all of those precious people but it is more like a background but not the base of your life. There are such people who stick up with their memories and they can’t just move further. They stick up and they live in the past and so there is no present and so no future for them. They are those who can’t let things and people go and they also can’t stop them and so the only thing left them to do is to live with those memories they have in their heads. But this is the kind of memories that are destructive and they ruin everything in one’ life. Memories are supposed to bring us the warm feeling of “do you remember?” and bring those day back when we were happy. But it is the only function of those and people should never grant those with more.

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To remember

There are always things to remember. Those are things that are precious for us. Those are moments that were the crucial points of our live or simply the moments we were happy. There is always something to remember but people often forget about that something. So it happens, that people are able to forget those things they considered the most precious things and they live their lives and they do things and those precious memories are stored somewhere people never come to. They forget about those moments and those days and people they cared and appreciated. They forget a lot and they lose themselves together with those memories. People need to realize who they are and they are looking for the right place for them in this life. But there is no way for one to find that place in case he or she lost the place he or she came from. Those are memories that matters because they keep people and feelings that used to make us happy. There is another world build of those memories and out of that world we usually feel cold, but we rare realize what the reason is for us to feel so lonely.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Preserving your Memories


Taking care of your precious memories is very important. We all have events in our lives we want to commemorate and share with others, but don’t often take the time to put those piles of old pictures into albums or tell stories from our memories. Preserving your memories is important for telling future generations about your family and your life. Pictures, when put in an album, can be nice, but often mysterious to those who page through wondering who all those faces are and what they mean.

 

Memories are what fill us and make us into ourselves. Throughout our lives we collect different experiences which make us into what we are today. These experiences and memories are incredibly special and shouldn’t be forgotten or put aside. Many these days have begun to capture memories through scrapbooking, where they memorialize special events and occasions.

 

Others have started to write their memoirs in order to describe their memories in detail and really tell the story of their lives. Some write down their memories in the hopes of getting them published, while others write just for their friends and family.

 

However you choose to do it, preserving your memories can be a truly rewarding experience as you think back on your life and all the different things that made you into the person you are. Often your memories will bring back things which you see differently from how you first saw them, and you may get a sense of how you’ve grown and changed in the years between. Looking at and capturing your memories is a truly rewarding experience.

 

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Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Memories And Brains

The brain is a very intricate tool, one that operates in our best interest when we let it, despite our reluctance to let go of faded memories. When memories begin to fade, no matter how hard we cling to them, it is the brain’s way of letting go of our past and embracing the future. For many of us, we cling to memories the same way we cling to those articles that remind us of something tragic, something less than desirable. We rarely cling so mercilessly to memories that are beautiful and light. We ache to remember the face of someone we loved long ago and we try to hold each moment in our mind’s eye. The brain doesn’t want us to rest in yesterday and thus our memories fade.

More often than not our memories are more like figments of thought that we have created. Children who grow up in the same house can often recall a memory together and yet their accounts of the events are different from each other. This is because the brain imprints a memory through filters and through our own ideas of truth. Memories are created by us and eventually discarded by the brain in order to allow us to move forward and live more in the moment. The brain is trying to allow us our own sense of recreation, and when we embrace it and allow our memories to shift into the recesses, we carry the general light of the incident or person but we no longer need to recall the details of the memories in order to learn their lessons.

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